Client Etiquette
It’s not every day you meet the date of your dreams — let alone talk to them… or get naked with them!
So, let’s make it unforgettable — for both of you.
Here are our top tips to help you enjoy a smooth, sexy, and respectful experience from start to finish.
- No photos, no videos.
What happens between consenting adults stays private. This isn’t content — it’s connection. - Respect the boundaries.
Each provider clearly lists what they offer. Honour that. Don’t push, don’t pressure — that’s not the vibe. - Be a dream date.
Treat your provider like you would a first date — with respect, kindness, and good energy. The more you spoil them, the more they’ll spoil you. And remember: respect isn’t optional — it’s the secret to making the magic happen. - Keep it classy, not messy.
Don’t get absolutely wasted — you want to remember every last detail of your ultimate experience. - Communicate changes early.
Running late? Need to tweak the time, location, or duration? Any special requests? Let your provider know as soon as possible — respect goes both ways.
When You’re Reaching Out To A Provider
Want to stand out from the crowd? A great introduction sets the tone. Try this:
- Start with your name — so they know what to moan (ahem, we mean whisper) during your date.
- Mention the time, date, location and duration of the booking you’re after.
- Let them know the kind of experience you’re looking for — but keep it classy. This isn’t the moment for dirty talk (although you are nearly there!)
- Ask any questions you might have. Open communication makes everything smoother — feel free to ask anything before the magic unfolds.
Good manners and clear communication set the tone for something that’s not just seamless — but seriously memorable.
And really… who doesn’t want to be unforgettable?
Advice From Our Providers
First time? Or just want to level up? Let’s talk secrets.
Booking an escort should feel exciting — not awkward.
But we get it… whether it’s your very first time or your fiftieth, you want to get it right.
So, here’s a little indulgent intel.
We asked ten of our favourite Seductive Secrets escorts to spill their top-shelf advice — the things that take an encounter from “nice” to next-level unforgettable.
Think of it as your pre-game cheat sheet: a little luxe, a little cheeky, and totally worth it. We know it can feel a little confronting at first — so let’s take the mystery out of it and make your experience as effortless (and unforgettable) as it should be.
Our Seductive Secrets companions share their best-kept secrets — and all you have to do is enjoy the ride.
“Make sure you are showered, fresh and ready to play. A little trim down there wouldn’t go amiss either. The fresher you are, the fruitier I will get!”
— T, 28
“We don’t answer private numbers, and if we say we’re unavailable for calls, please respect that and don’t call.”
— B, 29
“If it’s your first time booking an escort, don’t be afraid to tell us. We appreciate the honesty. We’ll take that into consideration and look after you. Nervous newbies get special treatment.”
— Z, 27
“If you want something special, or a bit different, make sure you ask as far in advance of the booking as possible. I’m happy to accommodate most requests, but if you have, say a fetish for a school uniform, or red lingerie, or a spanking paddle, I might not have it with me. If you tell me what you want beforehand, I can pack it especially for you.”
— L, 24
“I can’t recommend strongly enough that you read an escort’s services on her Seductive Secrets profile. If it says she doesn’t do butt stuff, don’t ask for butt stuff. It’s as simple as that. You wouldn’t go into a restaurant and order something that wasn’t on the menu.”
— B, 33
“It sounds simple, but treat an escort with respect and you will be rewarded with the same, which could be the most mind-blowing experience of your life. Be polite, be welcoming, offer us a drink – make us feel at home and both our experiences will be better.”
— P, 22
“Make sure the space is all ours. You may be sharing the apartment with everyone else from the party, but make sure there’s an intimate room available for us to enjoy each other alone. If your mates do want to join in, ensure you let us know prior and we can bring our friends for a group booking – or organise a price for you and your mates to share.”
— K, 41
“Don’t ask for natural sex. It’s not going to happen without protection. Safety is important for all of us.”
— D, 25
“If you’ve never enjoyed the intimate company of a female before, the best way to get the ultimate experience is by hiring a professional. We won’t judge you. And we know exactly what to do to make you feel at ease and give you the experience of your life.”
— J, 31
“If I’m doing an outcall, AKA coming to see you, I want the place to be neat and tidy. Whether it’s a 5-star hotel, or your house, I’m only getting dirty if your place is clean.”
— R, 24
“I’m here to make your fantasies come true. I don’t judge. So don’t be afraid to let go and enjoy yourself. It turns me on too.”
— A, 35
Whether you’re a curious first-timer or a seasoned connoisseur, one thing stays the same — when you treat your provider with respect and genuine intention, magic happens. Now go on… enjoy.
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